Dear mom e of 4,

I too am a mom of 2 15 and 10. I was disabled at the age of 28 due to stage 4 cancer (Melanoma) and have been struggling ever since. I have found over my lifetime, that being independent is soooo important these days! I too though, was in a long term relationship with my ex of 4 years and we were all but married the entire time. I never EVER allowed him to have total control over any of the finances because if you are TOGETHER then EVERYTHING should be together! That's what you call a marriage. If you are both giving 100% to the relationship then this idea applys to every portion of it! I know that you say that the inheritance was one of your husbands side of the family BUT like I said earlier, if you are together then why did you not share the responsibilites of handling this money? With hind sight being 20/20, now you are somewhat of a pickle and my best suggestion to you it to utilize all and whatever outside resources possible to be sure to get all things paid and on time. I just recently(2 weeks ago) have finally decided to start up my business and it has been flooded with clients AND success! You really need to research your idea online and first off find out if your idea is already being used in your area or not? If it hasn't already been taken, then you first need to either buy or borrow a book about srtating up business and follow the steps required to start up your company. It is much easier then most people think and I believe if you reasearch what I said, you will see that even though you must pay a little bit in order to file for the registration and fictitious name of the company. NOLA is a brand name of a book company and I highly reccomend this author to everyone trying to start a business and never has done so before. If you have any wuestions about anything please feel free to contact me at my personal email which is renewalife@yahoo.com. I hope that this is helpful and look forward to hearing back from you real soon!

Sincerely,

Ms. Sherry Cole